You are not alone. Chronic pelvic pain (CPP) occurs in about 30% of reproductive age females.
About 1/3 of of the time there is a gynecological diagnosis, such as endometriosis. There are also other factors that join together to play a role in maintaining persistent pelvic pain. These include bowel and bladder conditions (IBS, BPS), musculoskeletal issues (PVD, SI joint), a central nervous system that has become sensitive (central sensitization), and psychosocial factors (changes to mental health, relationships).
Research shows that treatment for CPP is most effective when it involves a biopsychosocial approach. The psychosocial part involves emotional support and cognitive techniques (for grief & loss, trauma, relationships, mood), as well as mindfulness techniques and pain science education (for the nervous system).
Research shows that psychosocial interventions can help you cope better with the fall out of persistent pain, and can help to change pain.